The
inside scoop on Exiting the Shame Matrix course and why comes first
in STREAM training
Lots
of great information about the four domains of pelvic health: the
biochemical pelvis, the biomechanical pelvis, the all important
scar tissue domain, and the emotional pelvis
Most
importantly, what the shame matrix is, how it affects access to
life as a whole, and why freeing yourself from it is *essential*
before helping others with their sexuality
Your
right to self pleasure and thoughts on radical sexual autonomy and
patriarchal culture
All
about the next Radical Bodywork module and reclaiming the erotic as
love of life
The
differences between touching from eros and giving erotic massage
and all the things that come up in pelvic touchwork from arousal to
longing to transference
The
role of assessment in navigating boundaries and connected
relational exchange
STREAM training news and how to get involved if
working with sexuality is your calling
What You’ll Hear:
What
is the full scope of STREAM? What does it stand for?
(1:40)
What
are the essential four parts of health? Ellen breaks it down
(2:49)
What
it means to unpack shame and why there’s potential for
transformation in the genitals (7:34)
Why
is Exiting the Shame Matrix the first module of this training?
Hint: Shame affects access to life as a whole (9:32)
A
right to self pleasure and how we explored it in the course
(12:07)
Thoughts on privacy, secrecy, and self pleasure
(12:37)
When
it comes to genitals, men wanna be bigger and women wanna be less
(13:37)
What
is sacred deconditioning? Why taking back authority is key
(14:30)
Owning your own sexuality is CONFRONTING in
practice (16:45)
We
must exit our own shame matrix and be really clear of who we are as
sexual beings before helping others with their sexuality
(19:05)
Authentic eros vs. shamed based eros. The power
of clearing the sexual shadow (21:50)
It's
time to own our sexual autonomy and how this relates to #metoo
(23:10)
Why
undoing shame is powerful in groups (23:26)
Activating Inner Jaguar Course as titrated step
into the shame matrix. Be seen in a space with other people
(26:00)
Next
module (in Feb 2018) is Radical Bodywork: Bone Holding, Body
Reading & Touch with Eros (28:30)
Why
radical touch? Literally means touching the root - your essential
erotic self (28:50)
The
difference between touching from eros and erotic massage
(33:30)
Kimberly shares what a client may experience
with pelvic touch (34:40)
How
is arousal held in pelvic touchwork? (36:11)
Is
genital touch a transference disaster? How do you create good
boundaries? Ellen explains the importance of assessment
(37:27)
This
is about training your hands for accurate perception, which can
only be done if you're free and clear of your own pelvic floor
tension (44:06)
The
emotional pelvis (45:34)
“No
one says cute little anus…” (thoughts on genital amnesia coupled
with shame) (46:41)
The
genital hole is a kind of trauma (50:37)
Second STREAM training in 2018 and how to learn
more. Calling those with a calling to work with sexuality in their
body-based practices (51:30)
Upcoming STREAM trainings,
including Radical Bodywork
Cutting-edge, pioneering conversations on holistic women's health, including sex, birth, motherhood, womanhood, intimacy and trauma with doula, certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Experiencing practitioner, and author of Call of the Wild and the Fourth Trimester, Kimberly Ann Johnson.